Sharing: Mumbling~

Situation A.

Lady: Why don't you squeeze the toothpaste from the bottom so it looks much nicer? (while her hand points at the toothpaste) 

Man: As long as I brush my teeth then it's OK laaaa...

Situation B.

Lady: These clothes I need to wash it by hand. That clothes I will just put in the washing machine. Do not mix them up. Put in different pails please.

Man: Too many orders. As long as I put it inside a pail then it's fine I guess.

I believe, everyone will agree that ladies love to speak more as compared to the men. Sometimes, their mumbling makes a man feel like their life was in miserable and kind of terrible. But, lets me share with you about one story related to mumbling. :)

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Pada zaman pemerintahan Saidina Umar Al-Khattab r.a., terdapat sepasang suami isteri yang selalu bertengkar dan bergaduh. Si isteri tidak henti-henti membebel. Sedang memasak pun dia membebel, sedang membasuh pun dia membebel, sedang tidur pun kalau boleh dia nak juga membebel.

Si suami tidak tahan dengan perangai isterinya yang sangat suka membebel. Dia pun marah balik isterinya kerana membebel. Si isteri pula menjawab. Si suami mula meninggikan suara.

Dari situlah mereka bertengkar dan bergaduh saban hari. Lama kelamaan si suami merasakan yang isterinya sudah melampau. Memandangkan keadaan rumahtangga mereka semakin parah, si suami pun mengambil inisiatif untuk pergi berjumpa dengan Saidina Umar untuk mengadu kelakuan isterinya.

Sebaik sahaja tiba di rumah Saidina Umar, si suami terdengar isteri Saidina Umar sedang membebel di dalam rumah. Tetapi tidak terdengar pula suara Saidina Umar membalas. Mendapati isteri Saidina Umar pun begitu, si suami tidak jadi hendak mengadukan hal isterinya. Katanya dalam hati, kalau isteri Khalifah pun begitu, apatah lagi isteriku.

Ketika dia berpaling hendak pergi, tiba-tiba Saidina Umar memanggilnya dan bertanya, "Apa hajat kamu datang ke mari?"

Si suami tadi menjawab,

"Aku datang hendak mengadu hal isteri aku, tapi aku lihat isterimu pun berkelakuan demikian terhadapmu."

Saidina Umar tersenyum lalu berkata, "Tidak patut kalau aku tidak sabar dengan kerenahnya. Bukankah dia telah memasak makanan untukku, membasuh pakaianku, bersabung nyawa melahirkan zuriat untukku, menjaga anak-anakku dan dia tempat aku mendapat hajatku? Sabarlah, sesungguhnya keadaannya itu tidak lama (nanti akan baik sendiri)."

Taken from here.

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This story maybe referring to those who already get married. But somehow, it is important to know that ladies do love talking.. And of course, the men need to hear.  Bear in mind, this is nature. So whenever a lady want to talk, just hear, even though deep down inside, you as a man feel like to shout at her and say, "Can you please be silent?"

~berdoa dan terus mengharapkan redha Illahi...~